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by Autumn Rain Taypayosatum
(Winnipeg, Canada)

Why do people call you fat!. its so hateful it hurts me when people call me names at school or at a club like I'm a happy person at first but then it hits me when a guy or gril calls me fat its like I'm suppose to be on another planet like I know I'm not that fat I sometimes ignore them but then I think about more and more it hurts me real badly when my mom tells me I'm fat and I should lose weight and she's saying that she's skinnier than me but then she over weight then I am. I hate the fact that I'm fat. Why am I fat I know I lost 3o lbs in 2 years why do people still call me fat??.....I just hate..but its life....

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Jul 20, 2011
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Your not fat your BEAUTIFUL
by: Anonymous

your not fat it just mean theres something wrong with them so they have to say mean things to other peeople just to make them self feel better

Apr 27, 2010
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Ignore
by: metalcore_freak@hotmail.com

woaw woaw woaw hold it right there.U stand in front of a mirror, look at urself u like it?? if u do then be happy, ignore everyone, dont believe u r fat.But if u hate it, then u have to work to get rid of it because comes easy.

Jan 19, 2010
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tel them 2 stick a fork in it
by: Anonymous

people cal me fat all the time and i come home and cry. dont let ppl bother you.

Dec 05, 2009
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miss ya
by: t-jay 13-16

dont worry what people say ur a very nice person and i always found u pretty -miss u

Apr 14, 2009
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People Will Choose
by: Dana

How you see yourself is all that matters. What people say is their problem. Don't let it become yours.

Apr 14, 2009
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It doesnt matter
by: Anonymous

It doesn't matter what other people say. Most the time when people say things that are hurtful it is just a reflection on how they feel about themselves. So if someone is calling you fat, it is because they think they are fat and cannot admit to themselves. Don't take it personal. Remember how great you are!

Feb 15, 2009
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Hold on to your dreams
by: Anonymous

Dear Autumn...

I am an English teacher in Québec who thought I would always be outside looking in...I never fit in anywhere for long.

In my early years, I was told that I was stupid and would never amount to anything. I thought that their impression of me was important. Those people didn't know me.

There is more to me than my outward appearance, there is much good in me. In my life I have achieved many things, gifts from God, I call them.

I am also blessed with a loving husband and a beautiful son who is also Native Canadian. Sometimes things are difficult but we try to remain positive and pick each up when we are low.

I have my own language school. I teach job research programs to adults for the provincial government and the local school commission.

I have been to Paris, France atleast 4 times... Rome twice, Amsterdam, Greece, Mexico.......... so many places... Blessings.

Many people who find critism in themselves tend to look for it in other people. Some like to squish other's hopes, dreams or goals, perhaps because they don't know what to dream for, themselves.

Whatever the case may be, try not to take it personal, I'm sure there is so much more to who we see when we look at you, too.

Talk to your teachers, elders in the community, get their views on the future and make decisions for yourself. Visit goverment organisations, community services and the church to find out
about education schlorships and programs to help you realize your dreams, too.

All the best, little diamond.

Nov 26, 2008
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Words Can Harm
by: Arthur

Autum

Your story hits home with many people. Of all ages. We know that old saying the sticks and stones may break our bones but words will never hurt us. Well for most people the words do hurt. For many they may hurt more than force.

The important thing to remember is to keep everything in proper perspective. People who hurt others with words are not worthy of your time or reflection.

Arthur

Nov 23, 2008
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Love Ya
by: Anonymous

Hi Autumn,
I don`t know why people say such hurtful things to you. But for me,you are and always will be one beautiful star in my life.

Mom karen

Oct 31, 2008
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you're beautiful...!
by: Vincent

Tell those people who say hurtful things that if they can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.

Feb 21, 2008
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holy
by: Anonymous

well people don't deserve to be ur friend...u are beautiful..u don't need people telling ur fat..and then u just going to regret urself...and u keep on thinking of it.....and then u just keep urself in this shelf of urs..and not spending lots of time in the world....there lots of stuff to do...be fun..be anything u want to be..don't let anybody..pull u down.....i'm just like u...autumn rain......

Jan 14, 2008
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Confidence
by: Kim in Phoenix AZ

Autumn

You are a beautiful human being. I don't know you personally but your picture clearly is very nice and I would take any negative comments and just wipe them away. Show confidence in your step and keep your chin high. Life is too short to let insensitive people take hold of your inner beauty and thought process.

Take a deep breath and approach each day as a wonderful experience.

Kim

Jan 14, 2008
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Hi Autumn
by: Anonymous

Hi Autumn,

Sometimes people are just jealous and have nothing better else to do. These people need serious attention and usually have a very low-esteem of themselves. I know it hurts, but if you take these dyfunct people's abuse seriously, it will hurt you even more.

Not everybody is like that. But sometimes it feels like it. Trust me, someday someone will do unto them ... what goes 'round, comes 'round!

If anything, forget them because you are BEAUTIFUL just as you are Autumn!

Stay Gold!
Levi

Jan 14, 2008
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Self Esteem
by: Nancy Timmer

Autumn

Your story is touching and quite frankly all too common. We are living in a time where a person's appearance is way too overrated and causing harm to people for no reason at all. If only people could judge one another on their inner person we would all be better off.

You sound like a person with great pride and that will ultimately get you through this as Im sure you are a beautiful person.

Take care and never take words that harm you in any way beyond the person who is obviously immature and self proclaiming.

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